WAW wants to get togeather?

[wifeleft2009]

ya it was ok, of course I enjoyed the morning with the kids alot! but had to directly deal with her at night when she dropped the kids off here.. I had to go get my son from her arms as he was asleep and she didnt have me get him from the seat yet I had to walk all the way to the car ???? . but I stayed happy and acted like nothing was wrong and waved bye

still working on my GAL and DB (would be better if W was out of the picture as the short time she was helped making huge leaps for me.. but I guess this will just make me stronger)

[wifeleft2009]

oh yeah and I was wondering I dont see other post here or at least i seem to over look them if they are here where the WAS was on drugs,, hard drugs...

are there any I can be pointed in the direction of? I just want a better understanding of what is going on in her crazy head

[bluerain]

Have you thought about joining Al-anon? Isnt that the one for families of drug users?

[wifeleft2009]

Never thought of that, infact shows what I know I was always under the idea that was only for the drugies and alcoholics. I think that's what she goes to from what D says.

[bluerain]

Look what I found!

http://www.ola-is.org/

I didnt check it out too much, but I think that they can actually do all online meetings and stuff- the anonymity is a blessing, just think about here! Might be worth checking out for you.

[wifeleft2009]

oh wow I was reading the 12 steps and I can say W has not done these.. just like her NA stuff IDK but she sure has not tried

[bluerain]

Well, first you have to want to help yourself right? Beleive it or not, apparently she hasnt hit rock bottom yet.

Is it something that can help you and the kids? Thats what you have to focus on now.

[wifeleft2009]

well, it looks more for the alcoholic but there does seem to be something about it helping the people she were effected even if the user is still drinking

[wifeleft2009]

I do think that once the D is final.. I will get the house stuff done and sell it so we can move away from here... I think living in a house with too many memories is no good

[bluerain]

I really wanted to keep my house, but I think that now I could take it or leave it. The memories will stay with you my friend, but getting out of the place where they were made might be good for you.

Do you think that you will just move to a different house, or make a bigger move? I am thinking that I want to move to a city that is about 4 hours away from where I am now and go to school and hopefully find a full time job.