H was over visting the kids for about 3 hours. I told him I wasn't leaving while he visited, mostly because I was paranoid that he would say something crazy to the kids. He said he didn't expect me to leave. This is a change from 2 months ago when he expected me to be out while he visited.

He absolutely thinks I have an OM. He asked me for names, told me he had been checking around, asked me about something 3 years ago, etc. He also told me again that he didn't approve of the kids being around OM. I just stood there laughing, so he said my body language was telling him that I had a man. He also said that he thought I have had a man since before we were separated !!!

I do not have one, and I have not had one. I said to him, why do you care? He said he didn't, he just cared about how it impacted the kids. I said I could do what I wanted with whoever I wanted. I didn't deny it, but I think I looked guilty.

Why does he care if I have the kids around OM? Does he actually think I would put them in harms way?

I'm starting to think the man who does not get jealous is a little worried I've met someone. Serves him right!

Last edited by Sad Girl; 12/27/09 11:40 PM.