I would like you to consider my POV on detachment:
Staying in the present is detachment. As soon as you let your mind fear the future (IE WILL H/OW be at the location I WANT TO GO) you lose detachment. Knowing how you will respond to "THE WORST" is wise. If I see H/OW at bar, I will continue to have a good time. I will not give them any attention.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
