Well I had a surprising turn of events today. Ex's family celebrates Christmas today. Out of the blue and very unexpectantly, my kids decided they did not want to go. I have been gearing up for this for months. Every year they go off with ex and I feel sad that I am missing out on their joy. They decided that they did not want to leave me. I encouraged them to go, telling them how much everyone wants to see them. They decided to stay home. I am in shock.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
