I didn't mean/want the exposure to damage their relationships, but the effect has been just that. The family is religious, and doesn't believe in stepping outside of the M.
What did you expect to happen when you exposed the affair?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement