BeingMe, thanks for you reply, I just asked son if hed had a good time, didnt ask anything else, he never mentioned auntie wasnt there and i didnt ask. ex would of only made a lie up if he had asked. ex said that son was invited to another party on tuesday that is at wifeys brothers house, son says he is not going and also said that if dad just thinks he is going to go down there all the time he as another think coming, so it could of just been a flash in the pan we will see.