wolverine, there are always different perspectives. That's why police officers interview all the witnesses. 10 different people give 10 different stories of the exact same incident. No surprise there. When one person is incapable or unwilling to recognizing another person's reality and perspective, you have abuse.

I do not love him. I stopped loving him years ago. I left emotionally years ago. I left physically this year.


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.