Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

All,

Did I do the right thing in exposing the A to W family?

Her B's were all suspicious, and were on the fence as far as what she was telling them. Now, after learning the truth, they are disguisted by her behavior.

I didn't mean/want the exposure to damage their relationships, but the effect has been just that. The family is religious, and doesn't believe in stepping outside of the M.

Both BIL's have told me that they would not have had a problem, if W merely said she didn't love me, and wanted a D. But, she lied about me, and what she was doing, and they feel hurt and betrayed as I do.

I dunno, I laid down my boundary to W right before I came home, but she didn't know what I knew as far as the OM.

Now that I have exposed this A, as well as possibly 2 others, I'm not sure what else to do.

I can tell that things are crumbling around her, but not sure of what I should do next.

Did I do the right thing exposing her?