Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Gnosis,
ya, I was thinking the same thing. It hurts that he is so brainwashed by her, and now is sympathetic to what she is doing.

But, nothing I can do about it, but just be a good father, and support him.

S15 also sent a text last night saying that he "might" call me today, if he has calmed the "F'" down.

I am going to let him know that in no uncertain terms, will I tolerate that type of language or behavior from him. I'm sure his M will tell him that it's ok, as she is desperate right now.

W is starting to spiral now. Her family knows what she has been doing, and she is in full deflection mode. She isn't "denying" anything, which I find funny. If she were "innocent" of an affair, wouldn't she be defending herself? I think she would.

I'm not sure what is next, but as long as I assume the worst, it can't be that bad. She has done/said just about everything she can to hurt me, and I have survived up to this point.

I mean, I have been hurt more than I ever thought possible, but I am still standing. I am proud of that. I am proud that I have taken the high road, and not done anything to get "revenge", or hurt her. I merely told the truth, and to her-the truth hurts.

Her family is extremely disappointed in her and her actions, and am wondering if that in itself, will begin to clear some of the fog. I highly doubt it, as she is an evil, nasty W right now. I dunno...

Ya, there is a TRO, and yes I am leaving in 48 hours. I am documenting all of this, and hope my L can do his work, and get my boys away from her.