SD, I can't recall where you stand legally. I remember that she has a TRO against you.
Is there anything more you can do to pull the rug out from under this nasty creature's feet?
EDIT: - Speak to your lawyer. There should be some impact on her having involved your son. See what you can do about having her declared an unfit mother and get the kids away from her. I know your leave is about to expire, but see what you can do.
