Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Ok, late last night early this morning, I start receiving texts from my BIL.

My W had texted him asking him if he knew that I hired a PI, he texted back that yes he did, and as a matter of fact, he recommended the guy to me.

My W immediately started flinging nasty texts his way, and then my S15, got in on the action.

He told my BIL, that it was nice that he was doing this to his own sister, and that he should mind his own business.

Well, her whole family knows now, and it seems that she is losing it.

The one thing the BIL and I noticed was that my W in no way, shape or form, tried to deny the A, or the PI's report. In fact, the only thing she was really pissed abbout was that her Brother was taking my "side".

Now, the Brother-my BIL, and I have been in contact since my W started this. He has been completely on board with me, because he knows my W, and her behavior from when they were just out of high school.

My S15 texted me last night telling me to tell my W brother to back off, and that it was low of me to pit her family against her, and that having his M bawling in front of her was too much.

The whole thing is just getting nastier and nastier. But I have taken the high road, and have not responded to my W in any fashion.