I know there is no one size fits all in these situations, but I am just wondering if there are any success stories out there about H or W's choosing to end affairs when they are so "deeply in love" with the OW or OM. I just need to know if it can truly happen if I just let it ride it's course? The only tricky part in my situation is that the OW is H's college girlfriend, his first love, first everything, the only other girlfriend he's had besides me, and they've reconnected.
Has anyone ever made it through such a strong EA and found themselves back together? I just don't ever see him admitting he was wrong and wanting to come back. Or has anyone ever been the cheating spouse and what made you come back?