I always wanted to go NC to get my husband back but now I think first of all I have to heal to a certain extent
This makes complete sense! I understand. Fortunately,it should be easier to go NC with him out of the country.
As for your gift from your MIL, you said his side of the family wasn't crazy about you, right? Because of things WH told them? Sorry, bestrong--how rude to get your gift back!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004