I know how upset you must be . My husband went out of town the day after halloween 2009 and over the phone he tells me we have to talk he hasnt been happy for a little while I worried the whole time he was gone , every time I would start to ask him about it he would say not till I get home , well he came home Nov.8 2009 and looked at me and I dont love you anymore . Its been years since I have loved you , but we have been intimate since he has moved out, someone please tell me how can that be!I dont hate myself for it I still love him I just want to understand how he can want to be with me when he says I made him unhappy