you got that right ! married 28 years here and been a couple since we were 17 years old . I still love my husband with everything in me , I am so hurt and confused!How are you guys handling it I talk to alot of woman at work , but never really got a mans point of view. This is the hardest thing I have ever done, I still believe in my marriage ! I ask myself so many times if he is out there doing what he wants to do , no problems to worry about house what is suppose to urge them back home? Will my love be enough? What is it men need from a marriage , my husband not much talker.