someone, PLEASE help me get a grasp!

[peacetoday]

LOst
You are new at this sometimes they file quick
some wait and pull you on a string
some file and stall
maybe it is harder when they file right away
but D or no D you can still stand
you can still db and give yourself ttime to heal
therapy helps with the pain
the pain is very hard in the start then it tapers off
snodderly is right
we get stonger
Maybe now let him go
let him file if he needs to
let him do ALL the work
You HAVE to protect your assets though b/c this MLC man is not the same H and father you M
HE WILL SPEND Everything in sight and some
My XH was always very responsible with Money until MLC and OW
up to date he has blown through everything he had
he is in debt
lost his business
on unemployment
so this financial part is real
they get secret credit card accounts
take your name off any of his credit cards
I did in the beginning
you have to think of yourself here
sometimes there is no way to restore the M this quick no matter how great at DB you are
the mlcer has to take the joiurney as snodderly said on the mother ship
we let go
some steps to help you as you let go
seek therapy
seek spiritual help
read positve informationa books
breath
try yoga
walk
meditate
journel
find a support groupin your area
talk to trusted paople to confide in
preferabaly anyone who has gone thru this
I met many women in my town who went thru this
older M woman seem to understand
I had personaaly known 4 couples who went thru similar MLC issues and stayed together
so ther is hope its just a long journey
no quick fixes
peace