I think you did great. Those first few holidays are going to be hard with everyone navigating their place. You didn't go overboard and held it together! Very proud of you.
I know it hurts and it sucks that W is indifferent. Like she said maybe pray for acceptance and peace.
You did really good Kev!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!