how long have you been married , I have never heard of this but it sounds very difficult to have to deal with,I think my husband is going thru midlife . We both lost our fathers 4 months and 2 days apart last year and it wasnt until he had left he tells me he has been looking for another job. We are 48 and I thought we had it made I love my husband very much and still believe in my marriage , how are you coping if you believe she has this problem and can she get help for it . Wish you the best