someone, PLEASE help me get a grasp!

[lost1234]

op,


it is so sad that people go through this.

am i allowed to be angry at the situation?

my h was told all about what is going on by his own physician...i realize it went in one ear and out the other...

this is what angers me... he knows, cant accept and will not get help.

it is easier for him to let it all go...


another ?

someone else told me the anger, nastiness...is the guilt, a defense mechanism...true or false?

was also told that anger is a sister to love?

the mood swings are killers...this is why i need to detach...all of it.

i am by nature one who needs to understand. i have read and read and will continue to do so. how do you just let it go?

yes, i know this is what i must do. i have been given excellent advice that i will begin following again, never really stopped, im just recovering from such a meltdown...

i dont want to sound pitiful, truly that is why i went out looking for DR to begin with.i hate this, i hate that the man i wanted to spend my life with is doing nothing but screaming divorce, its over, youll be doing without me...

these words hurt! i get this is why the detachment is needed and i will do it. it still hurts tho...