would it be correct to say, no one gets better until i do?
YES! Reread HB 6 stages you are going thru your own MLC and you must lead the way to recovery. A few posts back you say that you are depressed. Have you thought about IC or getting on AD's. This has helped me out a lot. I just read though your sich fast but how come you are not listening to trapt? He is giving you great advice. Too much talk with your W. You are pushing her away. Is that what you want?
