thanks guys!

op,

i am trying to nc and detach. honestly i am.

he has made fun of my getting support from any source, doesnt care means nothing...

a honest question...i asked earlier... how do i go dark with the girls not being affected?

i have calmed down...not in panic mode any longer. i intend on doing WHATEVER it takes

i must admit with how much he has said to hurt me the past few days, i think this will become a bit easier to not want to be around the person he is being.

I fear for our girls not having a father during all of this.

he is good to them, and the certainly deserve that...

it is hard to focus on me when i have so much concern for them


me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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