so son did a u turn yesterday and decided to go for tea with his dad and dads new family, it upset me a little as I dont want to think son is being bullied into this situation again, it is like dejavue, we were here 5 years ago, but I refrained from commenting and if that is what son wants to do that is what he will do, I have to respect his wishes and allow him to follow his own choices, he is 15 years old now and knows his own head, I only hope he doesnt end up getting torn apart again, but life must go on xxx