Another great day. H has been staying here all weekend, even though he is usually at his apt. on weekends. I know it's just for the holidays, but it feels so great. We spent time together as a family, just relaxing and having an at home vacation. I guess when H isn't working like a dog, he likes to be here. I told him that S is really happy when we're all together as a family. H replies, "Do you think so?" Seriously, is he that out of touch? I guess so. Fog. SO I explained.......but had no R talks about how much I miss him, etc. Kept it light and fun. And it was.
One slip today, when H was a complete jerk. Go figure. When I bring up what a jerk he's being he escalates. Of course. SO I just had to shut my mouth and move on. I hate it, but we're in MC now so he can't get away with abuse anymore.
And he never went to that party so this evening was even great. Laughing a lot and enjoying post-christmas treats and toys. Really enjoying family time. God I miss us being a family. I love having H home and parenting together. I worked so hard to not get my hopes up and just try to enjoy the moments.
I can't believe we are getting along so well. I never thought we'd have these days again.
