Lotus, I agree that if she really doesnt know that he is married, she deserves to know! Can you imagine? Being head over heels for someone who you just think is awesome and then finding out that its all been lies?!

But, undefeated, I really will tell you to be prepared for her to

A: not beleive you,

or

B: have bought lines about how you are either seperated, or that you are an evil beotch that has made his life a living hell for the last ___ years,

or of course,

C: not care.

Also, she is not the one who made a vow to you, he is. If you are going to make a demand, it should be made of him. And really, thats not a good idea either, you just cant control either one of them- its all about you and what you do now.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...