OK just found out from S21 that W is 'house sitting' in big town 30km away where we both work.
She had previously told me that she had had 'heaps of offers' from guys since our S. I asked if they were local, she replied that she knew heaps of guys in <big town> It's quite possible that this is completely innocent as it is between XMas New Year and lots of people are away on hols.
It just burns me up so much not knowing for sure. Most of you will be saying Yep A for sure.
Guess I just have to grin and bear the not knowing for the time being and get on with my life.
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010