NC - W vanished ...

[newmama]

I see what you mean about why she would probably call!It makese sense unfortunately. P, do you feel your muscles ripping through your shirt? You are seriously staying so strong at this NC business!!

I also told her though that if W doesn't want to be D's step-mum then she should leave us alone.

W is not leaving you alone. just stating facts; not being optimistic.swear.

So to me, I am saying marriage is dead but we can still reconcile (which makes sense to us I think but probably not to WAS's). Not sure if that is a mixed message or not.

it is messy-
We must state things in simple and direct terms with foggy WASs!!
But your letter was really direct and strong! Short and to the point! She got that letter and you've barely wavered in NC; actions keeping true to your words in the letter.

Friend was very supportive of me moving on and encouraging. She gave me the impression and almost let slip that there are things going on in the background.

big deal--does not raise any concern to me on outside looking in.

So not sure how to be dealing with things just now. Looking for a break after all the 'drama' and really just to be completely left alone by W until she removes her head from her a$$.

Same here...could really use a break at least. But NC will only offer you protection as long as THEY leave US alone.