You're right, Nut. I like that I can always count on your replies. Thanks.
Reading through other threads on here, I'm realizing how typical my situation really is. I think I need to broaden my perspective a bit. I'm anguished week to week by this crap, and then I read on here about people in the same situation as me, and worse, who have been DBing for a year or more.
It makes me wonder if filing is a proper step. I think my W is relaxed and not moving her feet on anything because she has better perspective (even if in an insane way). She is in no hurry, she has a dbag to enchant her and a H who is pretty darn good, and a good father. And I'm scurrying, moment to moment it seems, thinking about every detail involved, crunching numbers and scenarios, anticipating moves, etc. Its so exhausting.
I feel like Jack N's character in "As Good As It Gets," where he is in the restaurant and puts his head in his hands, mumbling, "this is exhausting being like this!"
