Praying for Light at the end of the Tunnel

[peacetoday]

the anger is not your fault
this belongs to him maybe his past his unresolved childhood issues
they project it on us
as if someone else could create such anger in someone
that is his and he will not get rid of it unless he goes within

my xh also took nothing but a few bags of clothes
he left pictures, clothes some new
a 5000 tv he bought 1 month before leaving he left it
all the electronics were lwft
he took a camera ..then gave it back

I believe they still want access to house as if they never left
My xh got upset when I asked him for the key back to our home
he was upset when I changed locks
b/c they want to be free
but they want us to stand still
cake eating
my xh did for like 2 years
he kept one foot in this world
so dont be too hard on yourslf
you are doing well
you can choose any technique you want
going dim or dark helps us
the less contact the less reactions for a while
remember the crises will take its time
use your energy to heal you
let H go

still you can be suppoertive and cordial while moving forward
maybe your H has to see what it will be like to be alone with no wife and they will get angrier as we set any boundries
peace