This was my first Christmas since W said she was thinking of leaving after Thanksgiving.

Communication has been spotty with me giving her plenty of space. I sent her orchids a week before Christmas which she loved, and she called twice on Christmas Eve to wish me a Merry Christmas (also called my mom & did the same), and sent me a nice email on Christmas with an XX on the end (first time since she left). But she still responds sparsely & on her own time to emails/voice mails.

Her Christmas packages were delayed by weather, so she will not get them until Tuesday. All in all it went 'OK' for me, but a bit sad/lonely at times.

I did not receive anything from her.


Me: 46
Ex: 38
Married: 10
Together: 12
No Children
Separated (again): 09/06/13
Divorced: 02/27/15