Am I overanalyzing a small detail? Should I not get her a latte and still get my own coffee? Part of me feels like she always preys on how good of a guy I am. Another part feels that it is an insignificant detail in the grand scheme of Operation Python.
It is an insignificant detail--even if it isn't. Either she just wants a latte before church or it makes her feel powerful to have you bring her one. Either way it doesn't matter--it's a small thing that you would probably do for just about anyone, because you are a good guy. I don't think her behavior should dictate whether or not you are a good guy...as long as you are a strong and decisive good guy.
