I'm not feeling like trying to pursue, trying to be attractive, or trying to lure him back. I'm tired of him being awful towards me. I have my kids, friends and family filling my love bank instead.
Yes you do!! As for luring him back...different plans fit different scenarios. Based on his super rude and childish behavior, I do not think I would be able to do that with him either! I thought you switched from that idea to NC+GAL. Guess what? He is noticing your GAL whether you want him to or not! Do you think maybe he got that necklace for you originally and then changed his mind and gave it to your D instead? I agree that it is weird...definitely pushing your buttons.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
