First let me say 1st time poster and thank you for any input on my situation.Weve been married for 12.5 yrs togeather for 13.5 total and she is my world.Let me get into the meat of this problem first then fill-in the rest i was a prideful man owned a const.biz and toward the end equated money with love.In april-09 had a dv against my 18 yr old daughter she slap me i pushed her all over her not comeing to the family easter dinner due to a thing i will explain later.Went to the pokey for a brief stay while there my world fell apart.My wife was brought in and ask if i had ever been abusive to her and over the years i had but in feb all hell broke lose you see i thought my wife was cheating on me.You see there were phone calls late at night from men and we got in to a confrontation and i said it was overand to prove it i was going to brake a gift that was given to us for are wedding and she tryed to stop me and got a sprained arm she told the police i had been abusive to her for the last 12 yrs of are marriage so i stayed in the poky a little longer a total of 8 monthes coures i got anger managment and domestic classes and can not speak to her or my girls till this comming april 2010 now for the iceing on my misery my oldest daughter has been dateing a known drug dealer [i have been paying for her pharmacey school for 2 yrs ] and wanted me to accept this man she got pregnat by him ect the whole ball of pain i could not and told her i would not so off she and he went to the police and said i molested her well long story short they investigated and found it to be no way true and dropped it theres more to it the stuff that went on at my home while i was a way .so my wife filed for divorce under the guize i did this to my daughter even after the police cleared me but she did not file till oct 4-09 i went to jail 4-13-09 now she told my father she will talk to me after my ppo and classes are up in april but she also told him she loves me but dont want to stay married to me so im confuesed if it where me and i truely thought my spouce did this i would of filed day one .You see my oldest has with her boyfreind told this lie and now it cant be retracted and i think my wife is caught.Now i could be wrong but since i nolonger stay at the home a whole host of low life kids stay at my home my wife is never there no one is saying where she is staying and my youngest moved out in june and has not been back.Its like my wife has lost it and dont care these kids are shacking up at my home .Which never happened befor my kids where never this way.My house is a mess so if some can give me advice please do i want to save my family and my marriage thank you.She is not talking to me she sometimes talks to my parants my youngest stepdaughter calls my dad and talks to him its like they hate me not a word to me at christmas.If you need more theres alittle more but i would like to say i do not think my wife cheated on me but a couple of months toward the end yes i felt she may have started but i could be wrong for she told me 2 days before all hell broke loose i was her one true love. thank you
