MC! Sounds like you were surrounded by family and enjoyed.
EXH may be trying but be cautious with your heart and decisions regarding the baby. Wanting to be sober and putting in the effort are two different things in reality. I don't mean to put him down, but it takes a lot of self determination to get where I think he may want to be and let's face it - only a small number people actually get there.
Keep protecting yourself from the turmoil and see a different life without all it in front of you.
Oh yes...I know. Nothing has really changed except for his wavering intentions...still not sure of the true motive on that. Time will tell.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!