Hi Bunny, I ditto what others have said.. take back some of your power & give him the camera back.
Be clear with him ...for what is "not acceptable"... the fuzzier you are with him, the further across your line he will come & the harder it is to get them back on their side.
Be gentle with yourself as you find your new normal.. it will happen and you can handle it.
Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.