A Choice

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Matter of fact, if I was your wife, I would assume that you were the one that put this "lady" up to writing a letter to me.

If you were my wife, I probably would not be in this sitch.... but I agree. I told her it would probably be a bad idea. Especially since W and lady at work barely know each other. Lady at work tells me that she is tired of seeing me the way that I am. Withdrawn, non talkative and lonely. W and I made our rounds at every work related function. Everybody thought we were the perfect couple. I kinda thought so myself.

btw, i know that you are not that way just saying if i was in your wife's shoes.

Thank you, I am not!


Though things appear to be getting better on my end, and with a firm boundary in place, W is taking baby steps. W still seeing OM, but frequency is less.

W was diagnosed with depression. Doc prescribed meds and she seems to be herself a little more week to week. maybe this has something to do with the increase in her calls and texts, and the I love you on the 24th.

I will not read much into it. She still has a busy next couple of weeks with school activities. After the busy settles, I will watch and see what happens....

Thanks for the response, you are dead on!!!