Thanks for the words of support, rocked.

Good to be reminded that other people, with children no less, are seeing WAS go with OP at Xmas. I'm not the only one, and others have more hurt.

His mom emailed that he will be "making big choices" after the holidays, which means the fight for the house is on.

She is struggling with meeting OW today. Of course she is a normal human person and will be friendly. No one is going to say "that hussy can't darken my door!" so X will get some validation, even of the most uncomfortable sort.

Ugh ugh ugh.

OK.... let it go. Breathe. Breathe.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process