New to the Divorce Situation

[DDogs]

I really want to do the Retrovaille weekends, I think it will address the communication disfunction in my M.. Only problem I foresee is is the W thinking that our M is done. It was mentioned that both parties have to be in an open frame of mind and be willing. W says she no longer feels willing.

Also, there have to be no 3rd party attachments. I cannot find any evidence of a third party for the W, but there are other posters here who have commented on my sitch, some seem inclined that there might be a third based on my sitch. So I am not 100% certain of that condition....

UPDATE: I decided to get off my @ss and am taking action to move forward. I have cancelled my condo lease extension effective 1/4. So I will be back in my home no later than that... I'm going to be proactive on the DB...

God, please give me the strength, knowledge and insight that I need to do what is right and necessary......DD