Forever is right on again. Though my H hasn't expressed it for a long time now, I am sure in his head D is at least an option he thinks should he choose. And I completely understand your feelings of frustration about not being given any type of chance given at all. That was (and still is) the huge hurdle for me post bomb. Okay, so the marriage was so bad according to him(history rewritten) but yet he wasn't willing to work on it at all, go see a C, anything? Really? It is very hard to think about, but what has helped me is reading up on MLC and depression and realizing what he is going through and that he just honestly can't work on anything right now, he has nothing really to give for anyone else because his depression, etc. is just consuming him.
