I have followed your sitch in amazement. Not so much in regards to the unique lifestyle chosen by your H but more with the person you are becoming. You more than anyone on this board represent the epitome of getting a life. IMHO GAL is more that a social experimentation it is getting your sh&*( together, deciding what your life is all about and doing it. If that means sitting at home for a day or weekend - go for it.
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