ok, this is how the last few days went - WAH arrives here with his sister at 9 p.m. on the 23rd - gives the jackets to the boys he had bought for them abroad,I offer both of them a tea, both decline - he loads the presents into my car from me and the boys for his parents, our niece and nephew and leaves - he was here 10 minutes at the most - that left me stunned to say the least after not seeing his boys for 3 months.
On the 24th him and his sister pick up the boys at 1 p.m. - plan was for them to bring the boys to the movies and to do a little x-mas shopping and I would take them of him at 8 p.m. - I did a little shopping myself and went to my friends house at 5 p.am. – we were just having dessert and the phone rings – WAH tells me him and his sister want to go home (6 p.m.) and if I could pick the boys up early. So my friend an myself picked them up from the shopping center – WAH didn’t even look at my friend – comment of my youngest when he comes into my car: they wanted to get rid of us. No movies as WAH and his sister weren’t in the mood – both of them dragged the kids through the shops for 4 hours straight – present and shoe shopping apparently. We went back to my friends house for a while and I took the kids home then – we ended up playing board games half the night which was fun. Yesterday WAH missed X-Mas morning in our house and also X-mas dinner – he arrived after 3 p.m. and stayed for 2.5 hours – didn’t bring any presents – we had agreed to give the jackets but i was actually hoping he would have brought something small ( the jackets weren’t wrapped when they got them so I doubt they saw them as a X-Mas present ). And today I get a call in the afternoon of WAH asking me if I need him in the evening as I had planned to go out – I said I am not going out as my friend drank too much last night lol – so he asks me if it’s ok if he doesn’t come at all today and instead comes by in the morning on his way back to the airport to say goodbye to the boys.
Yeah that’s about it – I am pretty shocked to say the least and can’t believe this is my husband.
