Looking for Advice

[Greek]

UPDATE: I did the easy one first. Very nicely laid down the boundary that OM has to be off her facebook. She didn't like it, but wasn't overtly upset about it. She agreed, told me I could show her how to do it when we got back from going out with the kids today. She still swears up and down there has been no contact, she has no option for contact, because I will got tell OM's W and "that is F___'d up"...she says I should have the courtesy to let him tell his wife if it gets to that point. I didn't bite...I just said I understand why you'd think that way, but that's not where I am at with all this.

Bravo

I was also honest in that we aren't going to get any trust built with OM still with access to her and vice versa on FB and him posting things like love song quotes and wishing he was somewhere learning how to ski on a day she was skiing. Her reply was she can't influence what her writes and I said yes but we can influence if we see it or not.

Bravo x 2!

Oh yes, one more thing, she angrily asked me to stop using the work affair. She said its not like I went down there and had sex with him, it was a short term thing that was just getting started. I let her know the emotional side was probably worse since that was the void I was working on filling and she let him.

Bravo x 3!

Cheers!
Greek