i believe the moving thing to honestly be about control.it would not help or hinder financially. we may owe a little less in rent but then gain a water and sewage bill...it would work out to be about the same...
i dont want to up and move the girls without good reason. i dont want to make anything harder on them than it already is. if there were good reason/motivation to do it, i would. he just hasnt been able to show me any yet.
the spending money ...
he thinks divorce would solve all of the problems. i disagree, i feel it would only create more...
he says he is going to domestics so i will be awarded child and spousal support. ok what i meant is that if he does that, he need not worry about how i spend it. i would be responsible for our well being...i would take care of it.
I have never been one to spend carelessly. even at our lowest financially i pinched to the point that we made it through. really gets to me that he would even be consider i would do something out of the normal for me...
me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later...
