I was commiserating with CTH about the down moments. They are coming fewer and further between for me these days. I am strong, particularly when I’m around my W and it isn’t an act. When she moved out I was clueless and made all the usual mistakes. Since finding this site and many other resources I now understand what is going on. I know why she is behaving the way she is. Now she is the predictable one and that gives me a great sense of strength and personal power.
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec
