our marriage was never perfect. it was good. he is a great father and a wonderful husband. when he is himself...
why would he be so stuck on divorce? the issues that we do/did have are so simply fixable. it is killing me that he would throw it all away.
Lost, that is why I believe that MLC is a real thing. I could say the same thing about our M and my H. Our marriage was good, not perfect, but nothing major wrong. He was a great H and father.
I am fortunate in that my H has actually only ever brought up D in a roundabout way a couple of times and that hasn't been for months. I got the speech about him feeling trapped and suffocated here. Yet he is still here and things have improved.
Really, limiting contact at this point (sounds like you have been) and trying not to focus on him are so important.
