Inclined to agree with the poster that said 20 is a tough age. I personally found 19 very tough and despite being too damn close to 50 at this point in my life, I still would NOT go back to being 19 again!
Hope you`re doing well Jeff, having a good Xmas and full of optimism for 2010.
Our kids will run through funny phases regardless of our marital status-just helps if both parents are pulling together which seems to be what`s happening in your case.
Looking forward to reading of your 2010 adventures!