trusting...

i have kept my mouth shut for almost the 4 1/2 months he has been gone.

xmas eve i lost it. he threatens me with divorce, he has all control and i dont know how to gain any of it back.

he has been mlc since may 07. progressively got worse and he left in aug. this year.

he was dx and actually warned by our dr....low testosterone and mlc depression.

i feel like by finally voicing anything...he is just gonna run to file and i DO NOT want this.

i would give anything to be able to get him some help but he is in complete denial there is a problem.

he just wants out and doesnt see the destruction to our marriage or our little girls

me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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