I guess I am feeling like I'm the one stuck with making the decision here. She almost seems pathetic in my mind when I think about how immature she has been being about everything. There's no way she can live on her own. And she's living with dbag now and thinking that that is her only option. She just isn't smart about anything right now.
Let me ASSURE you that you are starting to look very wise. I wouldn't look at it as being "stuck" with the decision. You sound STRONG when you show a woman you can and will be decisive. You aren't stuck with the decision. You are CHOOSING this decision. (wise men don't share their wife and try to win them back from a dirtbag) Big difference. Smart man...
Get your duck in a row and file as soon as those ducks are lined up. They are both in for a big awakening. You will begin to look better and better and better as REALITY hits them. I doubt either one of them is emotionally ready for what lies ahead.. Thrust into living together.. One with no money.. Kids that aren't yours... Both just going through divorce..
It has failure written all over it.. I would push them in that direction asap.. Shove her TO him.. She isn't sure what she wants. Take you as an option out of the way and you have a good chance that she will panic in a short time..
STAY STRONG. You are thinking in the correct terms. You said yourself she didn't do much anyways except for the laundry now and then and cook once in awhile. Gee, you can do all that WITHOUT her..
