Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[sandycay]

Never posted to you before but following along. Just wanted to add a few GAL pointers that you maybe over looking.

First you should have just told him to meet you at the Taco Bell and not why...(be mysterious and be vague if he ask) You can say something like "we have somethings to do on that side of town.

Second~ when you decline going to his mom house.... be dressed to the nines and turn him down... so what if you just take down Christmas decorations... maybe he'll think you went out and took down decorations.... make sure you are dressed like that when he comes back....

You need to take advantage of these small situations. You are holding up amazingly and have a lot of grace.