OMG Snoderly you have such great advice. I love this one! The one thing that I strongly urge you not to do is to continue pointing out the things he's not doing. I have to really try to remember that.

Even though I don't converse with my h much, it is good to remember this. My h is still in the blame game. H text me at 2am today and said he couldn't understand why I continue to say negative things. I text him back and said I had NO idea what he was talking about. Of course, he didn't text anything back.

I only wish my h could get out of that state of mind.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"