Originally Posted By: newmama
Believe it or not, these 2 actions scare me. I just am so much better at being agreeable and pleasant than doing things like making him drop off our S in a parking lot or not going with him to his mom's. (And going to his mom's is not a sign of anything; we have gone together in the past since the S).


It's a 180. Both of them. And they are good ones, particularly the one of not going to his mum's. That shows him and them that you guys are not a couple anymore and separated people don't do these things. They will also wonder why you weren't there and ... oh, they'll remember he's having an A ...

Good on you.

P.S. I usually leave the Xmas stuff up until the start of January!

Last edited by P17; 12/26/09 04:13 PM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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